Shop Mobile More Submit  Join Login
Thanks for insulting my fetish by HarpyLink234 Thanks for insulting my fetish by HarpyLink234
Had this happen a few days ago. Sorry but Vore is not greater then Mpreg and Mpreg or any other fetish is not better then the rest.

:/ And telling me that you are changing it to said fetish is just an insult to me. Especially when it's obvious that it is the latter fetish. You don't agree with the fetish, FINE! Its cool. I don't care. But telling the person who drew the material that THEY LIKED that you are considering it a fetish that they may not like. Yeah, that's really unnecessary. And honestly its an insult.

Because it is pretty much saying to the person, "My fetish is better then yours." When its a fetish...

People, use your brains. Would YOU like someone to pop into a image that is clearly one of your fetishes and have them tell you that they'll just change it to one that you hate? I strongly doubt it.
Add a Comment:
 
:icontora-shiro:
Tora-Shiro Featured By Owner Feb 28, 2015
I like this stamp! A lot of people need to chill and be friendly even if a fetish is something really sick, disgusting, or plain crazy. That's why they're called a fetish, right? But anyway, cool stamp, and the idea behind it. Promotes a bit of thinking in the "haters."
Reply
:iconmcle0d:
Mcle0d Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2010
Just who do you think you are? Do you seriously think you can control what another human being thinks. And before you bother saying "When did I say I was trying to control someone?" let me quote you "Don't change my fetish into yours." Sounds to me like your trying to control certain aspects in life that you can't. From all your comments you must hate the fetish voraphilia especially since you were so insulted by the fact your "beautiful" mpreg "warm fuzzy feelings" art were changed into a vore scenario. Let me quote you once again "Would YOU like someone to pop into a image that is clearly one of your fetishes and have them tell you that they'll just change it to one that you HATE?" that's just to make sure you don't go and say you don't hate the thought of vore (the idea of vore, not the group of people that enjoy it just to clarify, I'm not ignorant enough to think a smart person like yourself would hate a group of people just for enjoying something that can't be helped.). You know what really ticks me off is the fact you chose to share your art with the world and yet when someone says something about it, you get insulted, this is the real world, stuff happen that you can't control and that you won't like, just walk away next time don't bother to waste your time on a ignorant person like the one that commented on your picture. And before you say "You should do what you said in your comment "just walk away." " I can't, I do that too often to the trolls that constantly post hate stamps on the vore section, yes I'm a voraphilia, I can take it from them because they're looking to argue on the internet, but from someone with a fetish equally disturbing as what I like (maybe not equally as disturbing as vore but it is still disturbing, but still a fetish is a fetish anyway you look at they're all disturbing one way or another.), but I'm not here to insult either fetish, I'm here because you were butthurt by an ignorant comment, butthurt enough to make a stamp. Call me what you want, a hater or a troll, I didn't insult your work of art, just your opinion of how the earth works, draw what you like but don't get insulted by people who are controlled by their fetish's just ignore them because they can't help themselves. I personally don't find any fetish's disturbing because I was desensitized by what I've seen over a life time, and the fact I'm quite open minded to many different views. Just to clarify I don't hate mpreg. You sound like a smart open minded person, so take the high ground next time, walk away. Truth be told I was still looking for reasons to post this, I guess when you said you hated vore I over reacted, by the time I finished this I had read and understood why you were upset, I guess I should've just taken the high road and walked away, but someone as smart as you had to be told to take the higher road next time, forgive an ignorant person, because they don't know better, but you do. Sorry if I get you upset over my butthurt comment, but something had to be said. Man I'm a hypocrite... -Mr. Mcleod
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2010
*headdesks* I just wanted to make a stamp for others who have had this issue. :/ I don't like vore, and I probably NEVER WILL. I won't make it a secret! I don't like it. It's how I feel. But I can still respect it. As in, I don't flame it, I don't openly seek it, and I DON'T act like an ass and go to vore fans and claim that it is mpreg. Because I'm sure a few of them are not exactly keen on pregnant men. THAT is what the issue was. It would be nice if people would actually be considerate and DO THE SAME FOR OTHERS. I don't care if your fetish controls you, if you have the time to tell someone that, then you have mental capacity to at least think about the other person's feelings.

I have no right to be insulted when someone has to go and tell me that they need to change my fetish into theirs to like my work, especially one that makes me very uncomfortable? "I'll pretned this is such and such. Now everyone is happy." No, everyone is NOT happy. You just pretty much told me that my fetish is beneath you. The simple fact is they do NOT need to tell someone this. Its an insult to both my fetish and my work. And an insult to anyone with a fetish that can also understand that "My fetish is NOT the only one!"

And this happened twice by the same person. Who seemed to think that she needed to KEEP REITERATING that she hated both Mpreg and Male Male relations. She didn't just say she didn't like it, she was devaluating me along with it because I liked male male. Seriously "I thought it was something with yaoi, which I don't think is fetish." Who would NOT be offended by this? I never said anything bad about her fetish. I just was rather irritated that SHE HAD TO KEEP TELLING ME THIS ABOUT MINE. I can only say quiet for so long. This stamp was SUPPOSED to be "GODS how stupid can people be to not even think "Hey, would I like someone to do this back to ME?" But apparently, I can't be the least bit annoyed by someone feeling the need to force their fetish onto mine.
Reply
:iconmcle0d:
Mcle0d Featured By Owner Aug 16, 2010
But why should you feel so annoyed by someone who's a hater? Did you ever hear the saying "Haters gonna hate?" Doesn't matter what you say or what you do, they're still going to do something to try piss you off. Why not just block this person from viewing your page? If they don't respect your work don't let them see it in the future. Mr. Mcleod.
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 17, 2010
Even with a block, some of them have so much free time that they'll go and make another account... Had this happen once with some moron Zelink fanatic. It was a sad and hilarious thing. But considering how much I dislike this person as well, a person. I probably will do that. Though we did settle the situation. Albeit she kept offending me with the whole my fetishes are not real, crap... "I didn't know" my fucking ass. Pardon the cursing... Tends to happen ^^;. But if I blocked every person that ticked me off, then my block list would be full XD. Most of the time you can get people to back off if you present your argument in a valid light, but it they are that much of an inept twat; spamming plz's and nonsensical jargon tends to work. But that's not the point.

Really, I think we got off the entire point of this stamp. It's supposed to say that one should show some respect and not be a moron and tell the person that you're going to change their hard work and personal fetish into your own. The art was done the way it was for the pleasure of the ARTIST, and maybe others who share a similar ideal, not to please you. And they could have done that without telling the person. So it both makes you look like an attention seeking idiot and a jerk. I know not everyone is going to like my fetish, I don't expect them too, I even expect the flames, but I do not expect someone to have the nerve to even slightly insist that their fetish is "OH SO GREATZORZ". Which I have pretty much reiterated about 7 times over the course of the comments on this thing. Most other fetishists have the common sense to realize "Hey... What I like is just as fucked up as this. What right do I have to say anything?" Not all of them, but a good portion of them. That is all I ask for. It might be a bit much I guess in the vast fail and idiocy of the internet. But as a person, I can at least hope people with be smart enough to realize that I'm just as much of a person as they are. But one can dream, can they?
Reply
:iconmcle0d:
Mcle0d Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2010
See the thing is I was always arguing about the stamp. What was the point of it? To share with the world your problem with these idiots? Like I said before when you willing submit something to the internet it's subject to many, many different opinions some of them will try change it, and like you said some will flame it. You said you can deal with flaming, but why can't you do the same with people changing it? What if they're in fact just trolls doing it because they only wish to piss you off (not saying that's the reason, just throwing stuff out there)? But I'm not here to get into a discussion over personal opinion, please don't post anymore stamps on this type of thing again please. You seem like a very smart intelligent person, I believe you can work these things out yourself instead of having to bring the whole world into your problems (by world I mean the internet because anyone from any part of the world can view it). Mr. Mcleod
Reply
:iconmcle0d:
Mcle0d Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2010
Wait, that's taking it too far, continue making your stamps, just don't post them in the vore section is more so the thing that I'm asking (that means don't put vore in any of your keywords or discription, thank you very much). Mr. Mcleod
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2010
So, I'm not allowed to post anything with vore mentioned anywhere now? :/ So if I had said I hated anything else you wouldn't give two shits. Now look who's trying to control someone else. Okay, I've been wanting to say this for while, you said it yourself; you only said something because I said I hated vore... How about practicing what you preach? You obviously have a problem with anyone who does not like vore; so why not do what you keep insisting I don't do and IGNORE it. For the last damn time... They can change it, They just DO NOT NEED TO FUCKING CONSTANTLY TELL ME IN THE COMMENTS. For the love of fucking shit. That is what I've been saying OVER and OVER again this entire time. Yes, I'm cursing, but you know what. The fact that you are now insisting that I can not post art freely was the straw that broke my back. You have NO RIGHT to tell me what I can and can't post. So sorry you can't get over people not liking vore, but how about not giving me this bullshit; when AGAIN this is a stamp trying to promote COMMON SENSE.
Reply
:iconmcle0d:
Mcle0d Featured By Owner Aug 25, 2010
So let me get this straight. You like personal freedom right? The freedom to do what you want? I'm guessing so, since I got the reaction that I did from you. So far I see that YOU can do what you want but other people can't. What I did was just to check what your reaction would be, and as I thought your self centered, you only think about yourself. When someone does something YOU don't like you get angry understandable. But when someone decides to use that personal freedom for themselves to enjoy themselves you get angry at that just because it changed your idea into something they personally enjoy moreso than what you do. I mean what is that? Hypocrite. YOU have no right to tell people what to do, we can do this all day. We're both ignorant enough not to agree to what we have to say, and no. I'm not only going on in this argument for vore, it's understandable someone wouldn't like it, even go so far as to hate it. But what I can't stand is when someone cries on the internet over someone exercising their personal freedoms. We're going to be at this for a long time, I can tell. PS. I'm trying to get it through to you that you might want to use your common sense and let people do what they want with their own minds, just as long as they don't steal your art, change it and call it their own. They can change the idea because you can't own a idea, just the picture it's self. Mr. Mcleod
Reply
(1 Reply)
:iconthe-notebooks-voice:
the-notebooks-voice Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010  Student General Artist
WAY TO GO FINALLY SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS AND SEE'S IT RIGHT AND SECIABLE (ignore poor spelling)
Reply
:iconanimite6:
Animite6 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
..........Haters all of them......MPREG LOVE!!
Reply
:icondoucant:
doucant Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
my fetishes are better :)
Reply
:iconemeraldthechao174:
emeraldthechao174 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Back to the actual topic (sorry I waffled on). I hate it when I get bashed for liking pregnancy by hypocrits. If they had a certain reason for hating people who like it (tramatic memories or something) then fine but those who don't and are into more fucked up fetishes just digusts me; sick stuff like wanting to fuck animals, objects, shit, and like to see people hocking *vomits*. Also there's on ignorant bastard on YouTube who bashed maiesiophilia in 2007, made me sick.

Anyways I'll gladly accepts someone's fetish if they accept mine; same goes with opinions or anything like that.



Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Me, I say live and let live. I only get pissy when someone does something that insults me. Like what it says in the comments, I'm not going to go to someone else's fetish art and tell them that I'm gonna pretend its something else. First off, you could have done that without telling me... Second, it is almost like saying "my fetish is better, lalalalalal". No fetish is greater or less then the other, they are all odd in their own ways.
Reply
:iconemeraldthechao174:
emeraldthechao174 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Yeah fair enough, I'm usually more open for opinions in many topics. Although I dp get pissed off when people simply bash me for having a fetish yet they have loads.
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Anyone would. That's just being a hypocrite. And I'll admit I can be one at times, but shrug, we all can be. It's times like those that you just have to sit and :iconmariofacepalmplz: at the crap sometimes.
Reply
:iconemeraldthechao174:
emeraldthechao174 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Hehe yeah, I done that alot in school xD
Reply
:iconemeraldthechao174:
emeraldthechao174 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
I'm into pregnancy because it makes the mother more beautiful, not just because of the belly but also because of this warm glow that they have; I find seeing pregnant couples together, or them happy with their newborn child, to be adorable and hopeful; I hope to have a family, and feel that happiness, some day.

If I end up with a guy, I would pray that the NHS doesn't try to rip us off for surrogates. I guess I got into MPreg because of (1) it's cute, beautiful and sexy :meow:, and (2) the symbolism I see in it =D
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
83 That's about the same reason I got into mpreg too, those warm fuzzy feelings and the cuteness. Then I realized just how sexy I found boys with a heavy pregnant belly to be; that and the DRAMAZ. XD It is strange though, since I'm not fond of kids, but oh well.
Reply
:iconkagesora:
KageSora Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
That's not right. If they want to think of whatever you drew as their fetish, they can keep it to themselves. :| I mean, it's one thing when the artists says "Hey, this could be X, Y, or Z, take your pic" but that's just plain RUDE telling you that they're going to change what you drew to suit their tastes. :|

Urgh, why can't the vore and mpreg fans get along? Why must they insist on harassing each other? If they like vore, they should search for vore, and if they like mpreg they should search for mpreg, and not try to change one into the other. I've seen this go both ways... The two seem to have a history of not getting along... (Which I suppose I'll never understand, as I like both...) Then you get the people that like 'tame' things coming in and telling you your fetish is trash, and WHY CAN'T ALL THE FETISHES GET ALONG?! D: Where's the respect for the artist here?!
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
I dunno, and I'm kinda chummy with a major vore fan who also loves all kinds of stuff, so we can get along fine and dandy. But Ugh. Is it so hard to just say "Not my thing, but STILL AWESOME!" Gods. I like my men with babies, someone else likes men eating people, some like both. THAT IS AWESOMES, but please don't go and change my beloved fetish into yours... Its my art, as in MINE, WHAT I LIKE, NOT FOR YOU TO GO AND CHANGE INTO SOMETHING ELSE. Even if it was just something like "Aw... I wish it was such and such, but I still like it." Okay, cool! I'm fine with that! Don't give me this "I'll just pretend blah blah." It makes me wanna deck people in the face. It seems like actually caring about how the artist feels is NOT important.
Reply
:iconkagesora:
KageSora Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Oh, I'm not saying the two can never get along, just that it seems more uncommon than the hate. D: I get along just fine with mpreg and vore fans, as I like both... Seriously, and is it really that hard for them to hit the back button if they don't like it? Must they say anything at all, then? It's ridiculous that they feel the need to actually say they're gonna pretend it's something else, that's something they shoudl just keep to themselves. D:
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Oh no, I can chill with a vore fan just fine. So long as they don't get creepy about it. And I try not to get super creepo with mpreg. If I do, well I am quick to apologize and make amends. No reason we can't hang. The telling me to my face that you're gonna take my fetish and turn it into yours is what pissed me off. Especially when its one that I do not particularly like, so that's like a double hit of rude. My fetish is well, mine. And your fetish is yours. Let's be intelligent and considerate and leave it that way.
Reply
:iconkagesora:
KageSora Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
As long as everybody respects people, it's nice--it's just sad to see so many people /not/ seeing it from that point of view. And it should piss you off that somebody did that. It's just... Seriously, I can't believe somebody was rude enough to do that. D:
Reply
:iconvincethehermit:
VinceTheHermit Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
whats a fetish?
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Google is your friend.
Reply
:iconvincethehermit:
VinceTheHermit Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
alright
Reply
:iconjipperlita:
jipperlita Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010   Artist
Guuuuh, this crap happens to me alot with my (male) bondage fan art. >:/ People need to learn how to show some respect, seriously, it's not that fuckin hard.
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Oh fantastic. YES! I'll just take that flat chest and that penis and think of them as a cooch and boobies. Because that SO is what's going on here! :icontardplz:
Reply
:iconjipperlita:
jipperlita Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010   Artist
fffffff oh god. That summed up my situation quite nicely. It's not like there isn't already a shit ton of coochies & boobs here already. I have nothing against them personally---but lemme have MY fun! with MY art! *3*

:iconawwehplz:
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
WE WANTY THE BALLS AND THE COCK! LEAVE US TO OUR FUN TEIMZ!
Reply
:iconzachsanomaiy:
ZachsAnomaIy Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010  Professional Digital Artist
    I respect people and their fetishes but it turns out most the people who come and attack me and insult me for liking either mpreg or inflation, if you go to their profiles they all have some other fetish like toon character fetishisms and provocative anthro pictures. It's like they're insecure about themselves to start with.. I don't like it when people who HAVE weird or unnatural fetishes will rat me out for mine.

    I wish they'd just NOT look at my art if they hate it, in the first place. Why're they even IN my inflation club, or posting on my mpreg pictures? Why? Just to start trouble? :|
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Seems like it to me. And I have a beef with that shit too. Really, if you don't like it, okay; don't give me hell for just LIKING SOMETHING. Its just being a hypocrite. :/ We are all crazies with weird likes; we shouldn't be attacking each other. Its just ridiculous (OMG, I just accidentally unpluged my laptop when it didn't have the battery in it... LOL). Its just a stupid thing to go and tell someone who likes pregnant men that they're sick when you yourself like something like women with deadly breast sizes, furries, or other such oddities.

But really though, I just hate it when someone has to tell you that they need to change art of YOUR fetish into THEIR fetish to enjoy it. It's an insult and just not needed. And you never know if they even LIKE that fetish so you are probably JUST ADDING TO IT.
Reply
:iconzachsanomaiy:
ZachsAnomaIy Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010  Professional Digital Artist
    Exactly, If everything was the way I wanted it life would be boring as hell. People need to accept that the world is for everyone, not just for "you." And that there WILL be people who AREN'T "you", and people who will like things YOU don't. And that opinions exist that are not "YOUR'S" it's just a very selfish self revolving view of life.
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
:iconbravoplz: Indeed sir. Also, am I the only one who's the least bit insulted by that stamp that insists mpreg fans are closet chubby chasers? Funny considering Mpreg also involves the feelings that come with starting a family, those tender, sweet, and carrying ones. Not just the big bellies. (Which I also enjoy 83)
Reply
:iconzachsanomaiy:
ZachsAnomaIy Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010  Professional Digital Artist
    To me, mpreg has nothing to do with feelings or happiness or tenderness or families or babies or cute things, it usually has to do with death torment and lots of gore. LMAO. I am in no way attracted to chubbiness, or fatness, I'm more obsessed with the feeling of bodily invasion, which would count my fetish less as inflation and more as a rape fetish. But that applies only to me, not to everyone on the planet, probably to no one else. My fetish is my own. The same as anyone else's is. No two people have the same exact feeling or perception of something. It's a fact. It's like saying anyone who draws gore is a closet psychopath who's going to slaughter people one day. It's completely untrue, and is just like saying that once a girl killed someone so every girl ever will kill people. This guy who went to jail had freckles, all freckled people disrespect the law. It's an accusation based on no facts whatsoever. And it's just as childish and nonsensical as saying YOU. YOU THERE. YOUR MOM.
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
YOU SICK MONKEY! *flails arms* YOU CAN ONLY GET PREGGY TO HAVE HAPPY LOVEYNESS! *cries* OH SOMEONE THINKS OF THE CHILLENS! :P
Reply
:iconzachsanomaiy:
ZachsAnomaIy Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010  Professional Digital Artist
    PSH who needs babies? I got tentacle eggs, yo. Parasitic creatures. :iconohohoplz: nomnomnom.
Reply
:iconharpylink234:
HarpyLink234 Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2010
THE OTHER WHITE MEAT! *adds hot sauce*
Reply
(1 Reply)
:iconthekicking:
theKicking Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2010
Wait, there's a stamp for that? I am so offended now...

I hate it when people make assumptions. Am I the only mpreg fan who not only does NOT like it when guys get chubby as a result of their pregnancy but also when they grow breasts as well? Why do all mPreg stories have guys growing breasts?

And femPreg too. Most femPreg stories prominantly feature breasts swelling to sizes that I would not wish on anyone. It's almost as if they just throw it in there because they assume that's why their readers are reading.

It's one of the reasons I sort of avoid the whole breast swelling aspect when I write my mPreg/femPreg stories. I'm not feeding into the misconception, especially when it doesn't interest me.

Honestly, when I realize that the story is going along the "I kinda like you when you look all chubby with your bubble butt" or the "more boob = massively sexy feminine image" routes, I usually get bored and stop reading.

Am I in a minority? Or is it only the ones whose preferences match that author's that speak up?

Sorry for the speech. This issue has bugged me since I first started following both fetishes online.
Reply
Add a Comment:
 
×




Details

Submitted on
August 14, 2010
Image Size
13.8 KB
Resolution
99×56
Link
Thumb
Embed

Stats

Views
2,907
Favourites
63 (who?)
Comments
43
Downloads
24
×